Friday, October 16, 2009

Worship and Devotion, Praise to the ONE


Worship: Homage or reverence paid to a Deity ; acts, rites, or ceremonies of worship ; adoration, idolization, or devotion.

With these guidelines, it's easy for both Worshipped and worshipper to improvise and create true Top/Muscle/Cock worship in ways that satisfy both parties.

The Top, the object of adoration, and His pleasure, should the central focus of the bottom.

The bottom should eagerly and constantly provide signs of appreciation and amazement at the Tops' various features, according to where the Top directs the boy's attention.

The bottom should show passion with smiles, but the instinctive facial expression of worshipful bottom-lust is an almost tragic slackness, which can be a distraction to the Man, and a good bottom learns to overcome this reflex and to look playful and happy come what may...

That's why the best pornstar girls smile, bat their eyelashes, and present the man with a receptive, cooing cocksucker.

While being worshipped, the Top should feel confident to demand compliments and flattery, and to make the bottom repeat the praise over and over. This is where it can become ritualistic. Cockiness means that the Top already knows what the bottom is saying is true, but likes to hear it said again anyway.

A way for the Top to heighten the intensity is to withold reward from the bottom occasionally, and to induce begging. Begging is a great form of worship, and forces the bottom to go ever lower in paying homage.

In cock worship specifically, it is very effective for a Top to tightly control the bottoms' eyes and lips to keep focus on the main event, the Man's Penis. Personifying Your dick is a great way for a Top to reduce the bottom to being not just less than You, but also less than your Penis.

Having a name or names for Your cock makes it easier to "team up with him" in dominance of Your cocksucker. Personalizing your cock and making the bottom engage the Cock itself as a superior entity, making him/her talk to it, to beg him, drives home the utter inferiority of the bottom. Thus You and Your cock become powerful allies in Your quest to conquer Your worshipper.

Some name suggestions: Mastercock, Mr. Floppy, Mr. Fuckstick, His Lordship, Sir Splitter, Master One Eye. These are just ideas to find names that work best for you.

When the Top is stroking his cock, the view of his hand and his cock together are wildly arousing to the cocksucker, who is for the moment excluded from the action, seeing how a Real Man does it. Showing your dicksucker this wonder, giving him a close view of it, and teasing him with it only sharpens the boy's hunger and eagerness.

Controlling the gaze of the bottom is a powerful tool, especially when the Top waxes Stern - it's a huge turn on for the bottom, and for the Top it's a great way to give Yourself time to think of new stuff to do and new ways to mess with the bottom's mind.

Simple ways to control the gaze are with orders like: "Look at that cock, @%^#&!" or "Look at me when I talk to you, !()*&$" - and then when You're tired of the boy looking up into Your eyes, a sharp "What the fuck are you lookin' at?!?" will lower the eyes back to the Cock.

A bottom should always look up at the Master adoringly, but remember that looking into Master's eyes is like looking into the sun, only done with fear and hesitation, or when commanded to. Master enjoys watching you feast your eyes on His muscles, cock, and good looks, so do it blatantly, with a half-smile, but humbly, not greedily or without gratitude. Let the Man know what you feel, but be sure not to take it for granted or glibly.

A bottom should be ever scouring their mind for new ways to compliment, to show admiration, and to honor the Master.

Muscle worship is a similar dynamic, where the visual teasing and exhibiting can be used to prompt ever growing adoration. Talk about how big Your muscles are, kiss them, make the boy examine and compliment each one specifically. Remind the boy of his punyness, and of Your manly rigor in taking good care of Your body, and not being an out-of-shape wimp.

In all kinds of sex worship, talk about Your utter superiority and make sure the boy knows how lucky he is, how privileged he is to get to admire such Manliness at close range.

To prolong scenes, make the bottom fetch beer, do cock grooming, make explicit photographs, or change venues mid-encounter. It's also fun to switch abruptly from one mood to another, like being real Daddy-sweet and then suddenly enraged because there's half-crushed beercan on the floor and why doesn't the bitch keep the fucking house clean etc.

Standing over the bottom while berating him, using your boots and grabbing his hair to move him around into humiliating positions, and drilling him with lots of degrading questions with no real answer, while making sure his eyes are where you want them, is a great way to extend the experience.

If there's a dog around, be nicer to it than you are to the bottom. Relate to it as a superior to the bottom, and drill the cocksucker as to why he can't be as good as the dog. If it's a male dog, well, uh, I can imagine all sorts of things, but I guess that's up to y'all.

In many ways, we are captured by the trappings of Manliness - enjoy them, flaunt them, exaggerate them. This is not polite society. Burn away inhibition with excess - give it all You've got. Challenge yourself to be a better Top or bottom by stating your desires, making explicit that which is most thrilling, and then acting on it methodically, thoroughly, and at a casual pace.

Life's no fun if you don't stop to smell the Jockstraps!

Here are the instructional audio scenes:

To see the whole list, go here.

Here they are individually: Scene One, Scene Two, Scene Three, Scene Four, Scene 5, Scene 6, Scene 7, Scene 8, Scene 9, Scene 10

Essentials of Top / Bottom Dynamics

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Monday, October 5, 2009

Re-Enactments ;-)

These painstakingly and carefully created re-enactments document many years of depraved encounters between macho men and a boy they have in common. Many games are played here, and demonstrate easy and fun ways to accentuate the vulnerability of the bottom, and ways to enhance the dominance of the top. These are psychological games, operating in deep power structures of authority and obedience. There is no blood, little pain, but there is constant foul language and epithets that might be offensive to some people. Keep in mind that the words themselves are not as important as the fact that they are agreed upon by both parties. The word "faggot" could just as easily be changed to "twat" and the effect would be the same for the bottom who happens to enjoy that term.

Many of the question and answer games are designed to wring keywords out of the bottom, words that serve as powerful triggers that can be used by the Master as tools. Another advantage of these games is that they serve to confuse the bottom, often paralyzed by a combination of lust and confusion over conflicting commands, false choices, and no-win situations that deepen subjugation and dependency. Also, in having their source in the dominated, they are "OK," and not going to cause emotional pain beyond what is endurable.

Another trick in the Master's toolbox is planting images in the boy's mind, by the use of reminders of past events, real or imagined, to help the lust-addled bottom become fully engaged in the fantasy. Suggestions that there is an audience help to sharpen the sense of vulnerability, as does a mirror strategically placed for the convenience of the Master.

These mp3 files will be useful for those wanting to learn more about the fine art of cock and muscle worship, and also how to be an effective verbal top. Authority is confident, assertive, and aggressive, and the servant is breathy, adoring, compliant, soft, and constantly orgasmic as a form of flattery.

Another characteristic of this kind of play is edging, extended near-orgasm teasing, and a lot of sloppy facials. Good advice for cocksuckers or would-be cocksuckers is in abundance, and there are many references to fucking.

Incidentally, the incredibly vanilla appearance of this blog is in order to make it 'safe for work.'

There are 10 audio clips about 40 minutes each. To see the whole list, go here.

Here they are individually: Scene One, Scene Two, Scene Three, Scene Four, Scene 5, Scene 6, Scene 7, Scene 8, Scene 9, Scene 10